Kells Blogpost - The Magic Pill That Actually Works
/OK, CFK Beasts…quick rant. Sorry but I’m not sorry.
I have a friend who recently went to their annual physical. This person does CrossFit, works hard inside and outside of the gym, and has steadily improved over the past year. They show up, they have goals, and they put the time in. It’s a process, but it’s working.
While at the physical, this person’s nurse practitioner took it upon herself to offer-up a “solution” to my friend’s goal of getting in better shape: a risky surgery. This idea had never even crossed my friend’s mind, and they were stunned that this quick fix was offered in such a cavalier manner.
Not only was this suggested course of action delivered with the bedside manner of a French ISIS member…it was also completely unnecessary! My friend has shown improvement, is motivated, and never once asked for a solution that was this drastic and risky.
C’mon “nurse”. Do better.
Guys this happens way too much. We are being overprescribed, overdrugged, overprocedured and quick-fixed to death. Don’t believe me? Google “incidence of inappropriate procedures in the US” and read the second article that pops-up.
I have learned many things working in the healthcare industry for the past 15 years, not the least of which is the following: as a patient, you absolutely must advocate for yourself. Ask questions. Challenge. Do some research.
Of course we need the expertise of our caregivers, and the heights to which we can climb using modern medicine are unfathomable. We should be grateful for that every day. But that does not mean we should lean on these advances as a crutch, get lazy and hope that all of our problems will be quickly solved. More often than not, the best “magic pill” is work. Working harder. Working like a maniac. Obsessing over an outcome until it becomes a reality.
Have you ever SEEN someone transform themselves through sheer force of will? It is goddamn glorious. Primarily because it reminds us of what is possible, and that the human spirit is far stronger than anything that “happens” to it.
We see it in our own CFK community every day. Type II diabetes? Nope, gone. Haven’t seen the south side of 200lbs in 10 years? Can’t hang by yourself off of the pullup structure for more than a few seconds? Can’t get back to “pre-baby” shape? Bullshit…all of those goals have been/are being CRUSHED. And not through bariatric surgery, or taking a diet pill, or getting a fucking tummy tuck.
(OK…obscenity-filled seizure over)
The magic elixir is waking up earlier, eating smarter, working with more intensity and driving toward an outcome like your life depends on it. Unfortunately most folks don’t want to step away from watching Duck Dynasty long enough to internalize this. And many of our healthcare “providers” are doing nothing but facilitating this mindset.
There are other ways, guys. Just work harder.
Stoic philosophy tells us that the obstacle IS the way. Hardships are gifts that can propel us in a better, stronger direction. They simply need to be recognized and used properly. Lost your job? Relationship ended? Lost control of your weight and/or health? Something or someone was taken from you? Don’t overcome these circumstances…USE them to become infinitely better then you thought you could be.
In 1914, a massive explosion destroyed the majority of legendary inventor Thomas Edison’s manufacturing plant. As he watched his work being destroyed, the 67 year old was quoted as saying to his son “go get your mother and all her friends. They’ll never see a fire like this again!”.
Edison knew that he could have cried, yelled in anger, or gotten depressed as a result of this occurrence. But instead he smiled, told his son to enjoy the spectacle, and began rebuilding his business the very next morning. While he lost what amounted to about $23 million in today’s dollars in the accident, he rebuilt quickly and produced the equivalent of $10 million over the following 12 months (his best year to date).
There was no magic fix. At 67 years old, Edison just redoubled his efforts and thrived amidst potential chaotic circumstance. He used his situation to make himself better than ever.
A great example for all of us.
And so, to my friend…I know that YOU know that there are no quick fixes. Yes, modern medicines and procedures are wonderful and necessary to save some people. Of course they are. But you are not one of those people. I hope that you USE this situation to your benefit. Take the words spoken to you and use them as rocket fuel to get you to where you want to be.
…and go see that nurse a year from now and tell her that you didn’t need her magic bullet. You had your own.
-Mike
(Recommended reading on these ideas: The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday; Antifragile by Nassim Taleb)